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[flyboy_fox]

Pffffth. So much for today being better :P Okay, I don't want to write another long whiny post, so I'll just sum up this evening briefly.

My brother went "off on one" again. Totally turned on me and my mom... started yelling abuse at us both and trashing the house. Calling me a spastic and insane as he always does when he's angry with me, and calling both me and my mom "kn*b", "c***" "d***head" etc... then he started throwing things, and blasting his music with his door wide open and screaming along to it. Then when my mom was in tears, my brother packed some stuff in a bag and told his friends that his mom had kicked him out (which is a TOTAL lie), and... well... left. So, we have no idea where he is... my mom's been crying all evening and saying she wishes she had a gun so she can shoot herself... and... blah... things just suck. I did what I could... I picked up all the stuff my brother threw on the floor, then I made my mom some fruit tea, then I cooked a dinner for me and my mom (I made a fish and potato bake, and cooked some vegetables to go with it). She was feeling too unwell to eat it, but she eventually ate it and she said it was good... and I stayed with her all evening and made her some hot chocolate... and washed up everything... and tried my best. But she's so unhappy and stressed... My brother is such a bastard sometimes.

x.x Gyah.

Comments

[milesamatthias.livejournal.com]

WHat... the... hell...

What's his problem man?... :( You guys don't deserve that Jai... You or your mom... *huggles*

[flyboy-fox.livejournal.com]

I don't know what his fucking problem is. My mom works TWO jobs to keep this family going, and my brother is just an ungrateful little git. He'll swear at my mom and call her terrible things if she doesn't give him money, even when she can't afford it :\ And if she refuses, he tries to steal it from her x.x

[milesamatthias.livejournal.com]

:(... Why is he even allowed to enter that house now...?

[flyboy-fox.livejournal.com]

Because my mom doesn't want to kick him out :\ She feels guilty because my dad doesn't live with us and my brother is always blaming my mom for not letting my dad live here.

[milesamatthias.livejournal.com]

That's just wrong...:(

I hope all this passes soon Jai... *huggles again*

[(Anonymous)]

Oh man...what a nice brother you have there Jai....

God I sure hope he stays out for good this time...

*Does what Miles did, and hugs*

[flyboy-fox.livejournal.com]

Thanks.

[naoe-riki.livejournal.com]

Ow.. :((((
How old is your brother?

[flyboy-fox.livejournal.com]

He's 18... His 18th birthday was last week. He's three years younger than me.

[naoe-riki.livejournal.com]

So, like, where does he intend to go now?

Sorry, forgot to log in before ^^;;;;;

[leonskennedy827.livejournal.com]

Oh man...what a nice brother you have there Jai....

God I sure hope he stays out for good this time...

*Does what Miles did, and hugs*

Re: Sorry, forgot to log in before ^^;;;;;

[flyboy-fox.livejournal.com]

Heh, I figured it was you anyway, Leon :P Thanks... ::Hugs back::

Re: Sorry, forgot to log in before ^^;;;;;

[leonskennedy827.livejournal.com]

*Hugs again*

Wish I could so much more though...

Re: Sorry, forgot to log in before ^^;;;;;

[flyboy-fox.livejournal.com]

Thanks. Just having friends is helpful ^^

[lunarocean777.livejournal.com]

::Sigh:: Things just aren't going well for anyone right now...it's just not right.

Your brother went psycho, and did terible things. I know why your mom won't kick him out, but man..it's just not fair. I know your mom appreciates all that you do to help out in times like this, even if she's still feeling bad about the whole thing.

You guys don't deserve this to happen. I really hope things will pick up soon. ::hugs::

[flyboy-fox.livejournal.com]

I think it's just a depressive time of year. Peoples' moods in general take a dip... people are tired... more vunerable to illness and stress. This Monday was "Gloomy Monday", supposedly the worst Monday of the year (something to do with a combination of things that coincide at that point), and I think the effect stretches out for much of this month :\ Maybe when Spring kicks in, things will start to look up.

Anyway, thanks. ::Hugs::

[lunarocean777.livejournal.com]

There's seriously a "Gloomy Monday?" I can't say I had ever heard of that before...wow.

I suppose it does make sense. One of the reasons Winter is liked is for the holiday season, which makes people cheery. After that...it's just brutually cold, and everyone seems to just want it to end. And like you said, the stress thing...man, I never even thought about it.

Spring always seems to pick up. Things come to life again, including life itself ^^;

[twitchytwitch.livejournal.com]

Heh, I always love winter anyway. I LOVE the bitter cold, even if I'm not head over heels in love with being sick. :P

[rosebuster.livejournal.com]

Aw... The situation in your home sucks. I remember I wanted to see your room some day, but this may not be such a good idea in this case. Nasty brother you have there. But it's really nice of you what you tried to do for your mother to make her feel better. *huggles*

[flyboy-fox.livejournal.com]

Thanks RoSe ^^ ::Hugs::

[shaboba330.livejournal.com]

*huggles for you and your mom* Your brother sounds like he's definately deserving of being kicked out of the house as soon as possible. But that was so sweet of you to help out your mom like that; I'm sure she appreciated it so much n.n I hope the situation for both of you guys gets better.

[sullmaster.livejournal.com]

Wow...I'm honestly at a loss of words just reading what your brother did. Talk about a mental breakdown, he sure as heck doesn't act like an 18-year-old. Very ungrateful to act like that to your mom, after everything she's been through so far in her life. It was very thoughtful though on your part to help your mother out like that right after he left. I'll pray everything will turn out ok for you guys, for now just continue to help your mother and try to just pretend your brother isn't even there. Hope everything will turn around for you all and the family feud will be settled quickly ::hugs::

[helios-inferno.livejournal.com]

oi... o.o

Now that's shocking..
What was it your brother got so angry about anyway?

Still, there is no reall excuse for that behavior..
Not with how good your mother treats him and such.
It's really nice you tried to help her like that though, i'm sure she appreactiates that.
As for your brother..
I may not really know how he ever turned out this way, but I really hope there is something that can be done about it.
Perhaps he needs to relaise friends come and go, but parents are forever.
No matter what your mother did wrong in his eyes, it's somwthing that cant change.
So he should have some respect for her, especially because she tries to do the best for him.
I'm sure he should be able to see that if he just calms downs and looks at what he has, rather then getting angry for not getting what he wants more.

Though seriously...
If he really is attached to his father, perhaps he can live with him instead of his mother if that is truly his wish.
Though for your mother's sake I really hope he will gain some respect for your mother, for the most what your mother needs to know is that what she did is right.
And that she didn't do anything wrong that caused this to happen.

I wish you and your mother strength, especially for when he comes back to you. *hugs gently*

[twitchytwitch.livejournal.com]

You did a lot more then you were just supposed to, don't worry.
Waaah, if I had a son, I'd love for him to be like you. ^^


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Your brother SUCKS. X_x