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flyboy_foxWords cannot express how much disgust I feel towards my brother right now. He is the scum of the earth. Anyone who could treat his own mother the way he does deserves to be locked up and the key thrown away.
What son says things like "Shut your f***ing mouth, you d**k", and "I'll do whatever the f*** I want, I'm sick of you f***ing questioning me. Don't f***ing start or I'll smash your f***ing face in, you nob!"? And why was she 'questioning him'? Because he came home drunk at 4am after not calling home to say he'd be out all night, so my mom was worried sick... then he went out again even though my mom asked him not to... and he didn't go into work because he went to his ex-girlfriend's house and slept there all day x.x He drinks, smokes, does drugs... stays out all night, and cusses my mom out when she asks him where he was... he throws things, blasts his music deliberately on full volume when he's angry, and generally makes my mom cry FAR to often (once is too often x.x he does this a LOT). And then... after hurling abuse at her, he DEMANDS money. Usually £20. He won't leave the house unless she gives him money. Every other word he says to her is "F***" or worse.
But my mom can't do anything. My jerk dad decided he can't come home yet, even though my mom and I are LEAVING on Tuesday, so we have to go and leave my brother here alone, because my mom HAS to be at our new house on that day to sign the lease and pay a deposit. So... she has to just put up with my brother, or else he'd make it impossible to go ._. As it is, who knows what he'll do to the house, alone it it for possibly a week or more?
I can't believe the way he treats her. She was trying to show him how to use the dishwasher, oven, washing-machine etc today... he just hurled so much abuse at her... told her he wasn't going to do "any of that sh**" and that it's my mom's "duty" to clean up after him because "you're my f***ing mother!". I just... can't comprehend how anyone could be SO disrespectful to their mother! She feeds him, clothes him, bought him a CAR for his 18th birthday even... yet he still tells her he prefers his dad because "at least he knows when to shut his f***ing mouth" ._. soooo hurtful, considering my dad has NEVER been here for my mom... heck, he didn't even come back to England when I was born! And of course, he let her down again right now... promised he'd come home to stay with my brother, so my mom could take this once-in-a-lifetime opportunity to get away from her awful job and this awful area...
I know this isn't the golden old days of "May I be excused please, mama" and "I'm sorry if my behavior caused you any shame, papa", but kids should... respect their parents enough to not hurl abuse and threats at them... ESPECIALLY if that parent clearly tries their best! She's a single mom... she works incredibly hard... she's understanding and sweet and just a really good mom. I don't see how my brother could treat her like such dirt. I wanna smack him one, across the face. He deserves a good slap. He's a thug, plain and simple. -_-;
Sorry about that. Needed to get that out. I am furious right now. And you know? It's not a one-off. He behaves this way ALL the time.
*sigh*
What son says things like "Shut your f***ing mouth, you d**k", and "I'll do whatever the f*** I want, I'm sick of you f***ing questioning me. Don't f***ing start or I'll smash your f***ing face in, you nob!"? And why was she 'questioning him'? Because he came home drunk at 4am after not calling home to say he'd be out all night, so my mom was worried sick... then he went out again even though my mom asked him not to... and he didn't go into work because he went to his ex-girlfriend's house and slept there all day x.x He drinks, smokes, does drugs... stays out all night, and cusses my mom out when she asks him where he was... he throws things, blasts his music deliberately on full volume when he's angry, and generally makes my mom cry FAR to often (once is too often x.x he does this a LOT). And then... after hurling abuse at her, he DEMANDS money. Usually £20. He won't leave the house unless she gives him money. Every other word he says to her is "F***" or worse.
But my mom can't do anything. My jerk dad decided he can't come home yet, even though my mom and I are LEAVING on Tuesday, so we have to go and leave my brother here alone, because my mom HAS to be at our new house on that day to sign the lease and pay a deposit. So... she has to just put up with my brother, or else he'd make it impossible to go ._. As it is, who knows what he'll do to the house, alone it it for possibly a week or more?
I can't believe the way he treats her. She was trying to show him how to use the dishwasher, oven, washing-machine etc today... he just hurled so much abuse at her... told her he wasn't going to do "any of that sh**" and that it's my mom's "duty" to clean up after him because "you're my f***ing mother!". I just... can't comprehend how anyone could be SO disrespectful to their mother! She feeds him, clothes him, bought him a CAR for his 18th birthday even... yet he still tells her he prefers his dad because "at least he knows when to shut his f***ing mouth" ._. soooo hurtful, considering my dad has NEVER been here for my mom... heck, he didn't even come back to England when I was born! And of course, he let her down again right now... promised he'd come home to stay with my brother, so my mom could take this once-in-a-lifetime opportunity to get away from her awful job and this awful area...
I know this isn't the golden old days of "May I be excused please, mama" and "I'm sorry if my behavior caused you any shame, papa", but kids should... respect their parents enough to not hurl abuse and threats at them... ESPECIALLY if that parent clearly tries their best! She's a single mom... she works incredibly hard... she's understanding and sweet and just a really good mom. I don't see how my brother could treat her like such dirt. I wanna smack him one, across the face. He deserves a good slap. He's a thug, plain and simple. -_-;
Sorry about that. Needed to get that out. I am furious right now. And you know? It's not a one-off. He behaves this way ALL the time.
*sigh*
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Date: 2006-08-20 06:02 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2006-08-20 07:27 pm (UTC)It's just really awful and I wish there was something more I can do for you and your mother, and all the hard work you guys put up because of this... ^&*%&(@&%@#^ Slip your brother a rabid wombat or something. Or worse. FAR worse.
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Date: 2006-08-20 07:38 pm (UTC)This caught my eye, "you're my f***ing mother!", yes...in this very sentence he seems to be telling himself why he shouldn't be speaking to her like that.
He needs some tough love. I'd have kicked him out on his ass or put him in a rehabilitation center by now. Mama don't play dat!
I feel horrible for your mom. I can't imagine how she must feel when the baby she raised grows up to talk to her like that. I wonder where he got the idea that it's ok to treat her like that.
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Date: 2006-08-21 04:46 am (UTC)Exactly! Same here.
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Date: 2006-08-20 08:14 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2006-08-20 08:50 pm (UTC)I know how hard it is to see someone use and abuse someone close to you. My mother volunteered at a place for a while, and everyone just... *shakes head* I didn't know HOW she put up with it AT ALL.
But this is WAY different, too. I think it would kill my mother to hear me (her only child) talk to her like that... We've had arguments, of course, we're a somewhat normal family, but... Still. It's infuriating to see a child talk to the very person who RAISED them like that.
If there was any doubt before that your brother best get slapped, it's gone. >:(
In the meantime, *huggles you and your mother*. You guys totally don't deserve this. I'm so sorry, and I REALLY hope this new house works out better for you guys. ^_^
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Date: 2006-08-20 08:56 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2006-08-20 09:22 pm (UTC)Don't know how old your brother is, but he'll change in time. Hopefully, because this kind of behavoir is just sicknening.
Just.... wow. Much *hugs* to you.
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Date: 2006-08-21 02:38 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2006-08-21 03:00 am (UTC)At least you guys will be away from him soon
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Date: 2006-08-21 03:04 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2006-08-21 03:25 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2006-08-21 04:39 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2006-08-21 06:34 am (UTC)*huggles* good luck, Jai.
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Date: 2006-08-21 06:35 am (UTC)