I'd be more likely to go to SoS, honestly. I don't have the greatest relationship with my mother, though.
I had planned to go see my mate (who I hadn't seen in 6 months) when she found out one of her cousins and died and she wanted to go to the funeral. My first thought was "Crap! I'll have to cancel my plans." I was already planning in my head how I could manage to get my 3 sisters to where they needed to be myself. Before I had even said anything, she just burst out about how selfish I was for worrying about if I could go see my mate, when she didn't even know what was going through my head. I stopped being considerate of her feelings at that point because she obviously wasn't being considerate of mine.
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Date: 2011-06-18 03:06 am (UTC)I had planned to go see my mate (who I hadn't seen in 6 months) when she found out one of her cousins and died and she wanted to go to the funeral. My first thought was "Crap! I'll have to cancel my plans." I was already planning in my head how I could manage to get my 3 sisters to where they needed to be myself. Before I had even said anything, she just burst out about how selfish I was for worrying about if I could go see my mate, when she didn't even know what was going through my head. I stopped being considerate of her feelings at that point because she obviously wasn't being considerate of mine.