Dear god, that was harsh. XD Sorry, guess I still had some leftover vitriol. If you can delete other people's comments, go ahead and delete mine. XD I won't be offended.

My point is just that, yes, it's a shitty situation. But you are infinitely better than it, and I have full faith in your ability to make it happen. I'm going to ask around and see if I know anyone whose done what you and Jei are trying to do, and get some emails or other contacts for you.